I have been married for almost 20 years and my wife is not aware of my membership to this site or any of my extra-marital adventures. I realize this is a cliche' and that most of the women on this site will use this as a point of criticism. Contradictory though this statement may be, I do love my wife very much. She and I get along wonderfully and I very much enjoy spending my life with her. She is a wonderful mother to our children and everyone that meets her loves her.
Our sex life has dropped off the radar. Where it used to be frequent and adventurous, our physical involvement with one another has become nearly nonexistent. She and I have talked about this frequently, and while it usually improves for a while, it never stays around long. Plain and simple, my sex drive is far higher than hers, and she just isn't interested anymore. The irony is that she is extremely jealous and would not understand if she were to know about my behaviors.
Please don't bother with suggestions on how to improve things between she and I. We've tried it all.
So, here I am. Not looking for sympathy, just for an outlet. I realize with ridiculous clarity that I will not "hook up" with anyone here due to the stigma of being married because for whatever reason cheating on one's wife offends the delicate sensibilities of most of the people on this site. Ironic, no?
So please keep judgments to yourself. I know that my behavior is considered wrong by most people, and I don't need you to remind me of it.
My Ideal Person:
I am not looking for anyone, because I love my wife. Aside from our sexual problems, she is the perfect woman for me. What I'm looking to get out of this site is attention, plain and simple. I suffer from a severe lack of it in my life, and at this point I will take what I can get.
I want someone to notice me and tell me from time to time that they would love to suck my cock or that it would feel so good to fuck me. I would love to hook up with a woman that would enjoy an STD and Pregnancy-free sexual encounter with no strings attached. I do not have any desire to be with someone who is going to get attached or start wanting a relationship.
Relationship-wise, if I put you against my wife, you will lose. Discreet friendships with benefits are totally OK. Start to get dramatic about it, and I will write you off altogether.
What I do on this site is simple. I lurk, send a few messages and once or twice a week I turn on my webcam and jerk off. I love anyone to watch (male or female) and am thrilled to take requests.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metallica, Pink Floyd, Electric Six
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have actually been fortunate enough to have most of my
fantasies fulfilled. I prefer to wait for new fantasies
to come to me in reality rather than creating one in my head.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.
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